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Hans Feb 26 2014 10:26 AM

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What a great job, Michelle! They look great, Kibby as wel as the Jadeon centaur :) Kudos to you!

And the photo is absolutely wonderful!

mawra Feb 26 2014 11:39 AM

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There was both set up for pics at the con with a green screen. It was cool watching them add the background and glowing ball to the pic.

John De Lancie (Q from Star Trek) who was getting pics with fan. The back ground for those pics. was the star ship Enterprise.

Priscilla Feb 27 2014 07:16 AM

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It's one degree F out. Bit chilly! I put out more seed in the feeder on the deck and dumped a pile of seed on the deck for the squirrels.

In warmer news, some of the information has arrived for Jeff's & my early May DisneyWorld trip. Can't wait!

AnnMarie Feb 27 2014 07:37 AM

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Looks GREAT! Well done!

mawra Feb 27 2014 06:04 PM

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Tues & today there have been a LOT of bomb threats to all the schools in Lynchburg & the main hospital (the only one with an E.R.). All were evacuated and the E.R locked down. They caught the guy. He tried to extort money saying if he was not paid he would bomb a school. He has been charged with 24 felonies.

Things have been a little tense around here. Melissa was unsure if should send Emmi & Madison to school today. Once the bomb threats started today she debated rather or not she should pick them up early.

Cheryl Feb 27 2014 07:06 PM

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Mawra - kudos to you and Kibby, she and her centaur costume look fantastic! I'm glad you guys got to go have fun at a convention.


My son is still struggling with migraines, and we've been back to the ER once so far since the two-day hospitalization. That turned out to be pretty useless--although it did lower his pain level, it was right back up the next day. This week he added a case of strep throat, because he needed more fun in his life. But the antibiotics have finally kicked that down and his headache pain has lowered too (strep often causes headaches), so I'm as always hopeful that the end is just around the corner. And it'd be just in time as mandatory state standardized testing starts Mon and if he can't make it to school for that we'll have to wrangle time for it to be administered at home in a tight timeline.

Last week I baked nine loaves of banana bread, seven of which were given away as thank yous to the many folks that helped take care of my girls when my son was hospitalized. I have it confirmed now from the appreciative recipients that banana bread is a recognized universal sign of gratitude. Also that my family is not amused with me giving so much away, as the five of us can demolish a loaf in less than 24 hours.

Priscilla Feb 28 2014 08:01 AM

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This has been a long struggle for your whole family, Cheryl. I hope it will be over soon!


Banana bread is a real treat, I can imagine considering it a very gracious "thank you!" I try not to bake very often. None of us need the calories. :disguise:

Hans Feb 28 2014 11:37 AM

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Good grief, Cheryl, how horrible that your son is stillsuffering... I feel for him (and the rest of the family). It can't be easy! Gove him my regards and tell him we're thinking of him :heart:

Kugai Feb 28 2014 04:36 PM

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Priscilla Mar 1 2014 08:30 PM

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Got my husband a new recliner type chair for his birthday in a couple of weeks.

Maw, I am glad they caught the person making bomb threats. What IS the matter with people?! :mad:

mawra Mar 1 2014 09:51 PM

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When the kids were told it was a fire drill 9 yr. old Madison looked at her teacher, "they would not bring us up to the church for a fire drill."

Most of the time Madison's teacher is amused by her. Not so much that day. We all feel much better that he was caught.

Moonlady Mar 2 2014 11:46 PM

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Hang in there Cheryl. *hugs* to you and the family. My thoughts are with you and the doctors that they are able to ease his pain soon.

Mawra, I'm glad they caught him and no one was hurt.

Look forward to pictures afterwards, Cilla.

My baby sister married her boyfriend of 13 years yesterday night. It was a beautiful, moving wedding and awesome celebration afterwards. For those on Facebook, you'll be seeing pictures on and off from it as everyone posts.

Cheryl Mar 3 2014 02:25 PM

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Congrats to your sister, Moonlady! Nice for your family to have something so wonderful to celebrate!


My son is on a stronger antibiotic for strep throat now - I'm glad that I didn't second guess my decision to take him back to the doctor on Saturday when his throat still looked gross after 5 days of treatment (out of 10).

We had a snow day today, but I suspect school will be ready to open on time tomorrow as it wasn't as severe as expected and stopped much sooner as well. In that case my son is going for a partial day as they are doing standardized testing and I've been told that if he can't make it to school they'll just have to arrange for someone to come to the house to administer it. So we're going to give it a shot and if nothing else they can see for themselves how hard it is for him to concentrate for more than short bursts of time.

mawra Mar 3 2014 10:47 PM

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I hope he feels better soon.

We had a snow day here as well. Tomorrow the college is opening 90 minutes late, which is an odd time. Most of the classes start on the hour so they would only be there for half the class. Kibby only has once class so should go in for just half an hour. She has not missed any math classes so I am letting her skip this one. I just don't see the point in wasting 20 dollars in gas for just half a class. All her class work is done on the computer, so she won't miss anything.

AnnMarie Mar 4 2014 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Cheryl (Post 190870)
We had a snow day today, but I suspect school will be ready to open on time tomorrow as it wasn't as severe as expected and stopped much sooner as well. In that case my son is going for a partial day as they are doing standardized testing and I've been told that if he can't make it to school they'll just have to arrange for someone to come to the house to administer it. So we're going to give it a shot and if nothing else they can see for themselves how hard it is for him to concentrate for more than short bursts of time.

I swear with this COmmon Core crap, they don't care, Cheryl. There was a case in Florida lately: The little boy was DYING, and the education system gave his parents a hard time about him not taking their bloody tests.

Priscilla Mar 4 2014 08:03 AM

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It is all "teaching to the test". I hate it. I was talking to our next door neighbor who has four kids from third grade up to high school senior. She hates it. She showed me some of the third grader's math homework. It was word problems using language a high school student would find difficult. Now I'm not complaining about getting students to "stretch their brains" but apparently they are not learning the basics - adding, subtracting, etc. She said one town in CT has quit doing Common Core. I wish more would!

mawra Mar 4 2014 12:59 PM

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Here there was a story about 3rd graders getting encouragement as they went in to take the SOL test. It was expected to take them at least 4 hours. By the time they came out some of the were in tears from the stress.

I would not do well if I had to take tests for 4 hours now, much less when I was 8 or 9 years old.

Moonlady Mar 4 2014 10:08 PM

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What needs to happen is for the parents to rise up in revolt about the tests because when the teachers do, they threaten us saying we are afraid because we are bad teachers. This test madness is just companies competing to make more money which is sad. Off my soapbox.

Yes, Cheryl it has been great having something good. I wish the best for you and the boy tomorrow.

mawra Mar 6 2014 09:52 PM

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:(:mad::crazy::irk:
I am cold. I am tired of cold. We are suppose to get ice tonight.

:confused: Where is spring? Is it ever going to get here?:confused:

Allen Mar 7 2014 12:55 AM

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It got up to about 50 here today.

mawra Mar 7 2014 10:22 AM

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It is suppose to be warm here this weekend.

Priscilla Mar 7 2014 11:20 AM

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If we have two more snow days the "kids" (Jenn, Mike, Fred and Eliza) will not be able to go to Disney. :( They are set to go starting June 20. The last day of school was supposed to be June 11. They are already up to June 20. Mike will have to change his flight and go that evening while the other three take the morning flight on the 20th. This is ridiculous! The last full week of school for him (he is a teacher) is all "half-days" to make it look like the kids are getting the full required number of days of school for the year. :brow: They cannot change their trip to a later date in the summer because as soon as they get back Mike begins his summer class for his Master's.

mawra Mar 7 2014 05:28 PM

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Too bad they can't miss those last few days. I always hated it when they cut into summer break.

Priscilla Mar 7 2014 06:03 PM

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Unfortunately, it is Mike's first year as a teacher so there's no way he could leave. I gather he's not the only teacher with difficulties. Parents with kids in the system can just "leave" with them if they have vacation plans - not the teachers. It's looking like they will still get to go, fingers crossed.

GinnyStar Mar 7 2014 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Priscilla (Post 190903)
If we have two more snow days the "kids" (Jenn, Mike, Fred and Eliza) will not be able to go to Disney. :( They are set to go starting June 20. The last day of school was supposed to be June 11. They are already up to June 20. Mike will have to change his flight and go that evening while the other three take the morning flight on the 20th. This is ridiculous! The last full week of school for him (he is a teacher) is all "half-days" to make it look like the kids are getting the full required number of days of school for the year. :brow: They cannot change their trip to a later date in the summer because as soon as they get back Mike begins his summer class for his Master's.

Hugs

mara Mar 8 2014 12:41 PM

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Spring is here in the Netherlands. Tomorrow 20° C. (I don't know F.)

Cheryl Mar 8 2014 12:46 PM

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Cilla - that is rough. I hope something gets worked out to a more sensible schedule and that the trip happens for the family.

We've used our snow days, plus one extra now, and I think the plan to make it up is to turn a teacher in-service day back into a school day. That seems so much nicer than extending into the summer.

I also remember a couple years ago when there was a bad run of snow days (hmm, in 2010 as I recall), that many counties in MD petitioned the state school governing authority to have the extra days forgiven instead of having to make them up. I don't recall how that turned out, as it didn't affect us (somehow we didn't go beyond the allotted snow days).

mawra Mar 8 2014 05:43 PM

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I remember when I was in high school TRIED to make days up on Sat. It did not work. No one showed up. A couple of years ago they extended the hours students had go. They started 15 min early and got out 15 min late, or something like that.

Any days added after May is useless, the SOLs are in May, by law. Nothing after that really counts.

Priscilla Mar 8 2014 06:05 PM

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When do your schools start in the Fall? Ours start several days before Labor Day weekend and should have gone to June 11. A lot of our schools do not have air conditioning. Going late in June is not fun. What are SOL's?

Priscilla Mar 8 2014 07:51 PM

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US folks. Don't forget to change your clocks tonight!

Moonlady Mar 8 2014 08:24 PM

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Cilla, I hope the snow days end for your son and all works out.

I hope Spring arrives soon for those still stuck in Winter. We need Winter (rain) more... Not trying to rub it in, but too much summer in this state.

Other than that day by day. It seems that this is the year I improve my communication skills with administration. This year, I received a student who is well known in the district for her behavior. My staff and I followed the behavior plan and when it was not changing the behavior, we put together our heads and tried everything we know. We kept data, shared it with admin and DO (district office). Still the behavior continued to the point that an employee filed a complaint with the union because she often ran into the teacher's lounge. Last week, I was called in to a meeting with my principal and one vice principal. The gist of the meeting was if I ran a better classroom, we'd not have the problem we have. At one point, I lost it and said after 12 years of the same behavior why am I the teacher being pulled in and blamed. My classroom ran good until this student joined it. I'm having the same problems previous teachers had why don't we look at the common denominator instead of blaming me. They said they were not blaming me but wanted to support me. We ended the meeting and agreed to meet again. I went to my union reps for help expressing myself because if my admin wants to support me than I need behavior support from a trained behavior specialist if I'm going to change her behavior after over 12 years of it. Now, if everyone agrees we have a meeting after school next Friday. If you made it this far, then thank you.

AnnMarie Mar 9 2014 10:34 AM

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Moonlady, good luck with the student from hell. Someone needs to look at the home life as well as the school environment, if nothing has changed in 12 years. Teachers can do everything right, and if the parents aren't on board, all that good work gets torpedoed.

Trying to get started on the spring cleaning....hard to do when it isn't spring and there is still three feet of snow in the yard.

mawra Mar 9 2014 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Priscilla (Post 190927)
When do your schools start in the Fall? Ours start several days before Labor Day weekend and should have gone to June 11. A lot of our schools do not have air conditioning. Going late in June is not fun. What are SOL's?

If our schools have a lot of snow days they can start before Labor Day. If the do not have snow days they can not start before Labor Day.

SOLs at the Standard Of Learning test. The test by which the school and teachers are measured by. If it is not on the test it is not taught. The whole year is determined by them. They have to be given in early May, by state law. One year they did extend the date by one week. Anything taught after that does not really count for anything.

It is to the point that the only thing the teachers can teach is the test and how to take it.

Priscilla Mar 9 2014 11:17 AM

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Hooo boy, I really feel for you, Moonlady! When you mentioned this kid in your class it reminded me of some of the kids we had in the "after school" program I worked in for about 4 years. Several of them were really bad. I remember one kid telling me he had a gun at home, he knew where I lived and he was going to kill me. Even though I reported it to my boss absolutely nothing happened. Today they take threats like that more seriously. At least he was not there every day and I was not his teacher. I agree with AnnMarie, it sounds like the parents aren't doing their part. Best of luck to you and I hope you can get support from your principal and not be a scapegoat!

I don't do a spring cleaning. Occasionally we run the vacuum and once a year Jeff washes the outside of the windows. If someone happens to be coming over (very rare) we may do a bit more.

mawra Mar 9 2014 11:21 AM

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I think our snow has all finally melted. It got up 69 yesterday. I don't know what they are calling for this week.

mawra Mar 9 2014 11:23 AM

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Good luck with your student. It sounds like a behavior specialist is needed, Moonlady.

P'ter Mar 9 2014 04:33 PM

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Moonlady: sounds like you need Priscilla's pupil to bring his gun over and deal with her!

Priscilla Mar 9 2014 07:58 PM

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Whoa. I know you're joking, but guns aren't much of a laughing matter to me.

Lily Mar 9 2014 08:49 PM

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How terrifying is this gun talk!!!! Thank goodness we have nothing of the sort here in New Zealand!

Moonlady Mar 9 2014 11:06 PM

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Thank you everyone.

Sadly, for my student some of it is not in her control. There are times when you can see she is fighting with herself for control. It breaks our (me and my staff) hearts. There seems to be a "chemical" component to it and I don't think her doctor is doing everything he can. Her family is on medicare and sometimes doctors on medicare do not offer comprehensive care. Also, I don't know how pro-active mom is with the doctor. When I was talking to her, she told me how the doctor told her not to worry about her daughter eating paper because it will just go through her. Its so bad, her mom has to hide the toilet paper or she'd eat it all. Thanks again.

Cilla, that is horrible. Thankfully, I don't have to worry about student's threatening me with a gun but still its horrible that your administration did nothing about it.

May everyone have a great week.


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